Wednesday, 12 September 2012

Get your life right before having kids

You all know my stance on this, if i knew the hell i would go through after having a child i would have remained childless.This is not  a life, it is hell.Hell on earth!!!! i advise you to get your life in order before having any children. If you have to struggle to keep food on the table then you will find yourself resenting your kids. Even hating them. I dont hate my son,but i hate with every bone in my body being a mother.it is the worst thing i have ever done in my life. Endless dirty house, non stop cleaning but it is never clean. Everything i touch gets messed up. I have to sacrifice everything for this while his dad does  not have to sacrifice a damn thing. its driving me crazy, and i am trying to run a business which is impossible with all the noise and the whining and the moaning,the routines,the playgroups, the day trips,its all a damn nightmare and i detest it. I was not built for this, and sometimes  i wanna jump out of a window.

if you want kids have a stable relationship and  stable life. enough said.

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